A Funeral Sermon on John 14
Once more I have had the unpleasant experience of having to listen to a "pastor" expound on the John 14 text in a way which focuses exclusively on "what we get when we get to heaven." Central to this position is the insistence that "you better believe in Jesus - have a personal relationship with Jesus" or else you won't be getting one of those nice mansions." This is not the Gospel and it is not what this text is saying. In fact I find this approach to funeral sermons to be reprehensible as it subjects vulnerable and grieving men and women to a manipulative religious diatribe which is totally irrelevant to the occasion - the loss of a loved one. Not only that, but I have experienced also the dishonesty of evangelical "pastors" enlisting the deceased in their manipulation (e.g. Mildred believed in Jesus so you all should be like Mildred and believe in Jesus). This is NOT the Gospel. This is manipulation and it is irresponsible. So, for all who may have had the terrible experience of having to sit through a "God's going to give you a mansion when you get to heaven" manipulative sermon at a funeral I humbly offer this meditation.
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Grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord and Savior, Jesus who is the Christ.
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Grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord and Savior, Jesus who is the Christ.
Someone
once wrote that the lives we live are like a pebble tossed into a pond, which
causes ever-widening rings and ripples.
The ripples in the water can often continue on for a while and will
touch everything in the path, and not only that but those ripples will continue
on even after the stone has disappeared from view. In the same way those who we love and those
who have gone before us have touched us with their lives – their character,
values and the things they have given to us will continue to touch us and
affect us for years.
At this point it would be appropriate to remember your loved one - who he/she was, what they did, how did they affect you in both positive and negative ways. Remember no one is perfect and we all have both our positive and negative parts of our lives. And not only that, but what are some of concrete things this person did that reveal the kind of person (s)he was.
Some thoughts on John 14:
The passage is set during
the Last Supper. Now this is the last
time Jesus and his disciples spent together and the entire experience ended up
being a very difficult and emotional time for all of them. Jesus had started
off by washing the feet of the disciples, predicted that Peter would deny him
and that all of them would run away and he again reminded them that he would
soon be arrested and crucified. These
were difficult words for the disciples to hear and as Jesus shared some final
teachings it is obvious from the questions that the disciples are upset and
confused. In the passage from John 14,
Jesus is trying to comfort the disciples as they struggle with their confusion
and impending loss. “Trust in God –
trust in me” Jesus tells them and then he tells them this:
In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If it were not so, would I have told you that
I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I
will come again and take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be
also.
Now, the King James version
translates the beginning of this line as "Mansions" – in my Father’s house are many mansions. But this is not what the original text says -
at all. There are no mansions in the
text, and even the phrase “dwelling places” is a little vague. What is Jesus telling his grieving disciples
here? In the 1st century,
goods and merchandise were usually transported from one place to another in
large caravans, which consisted of a large number of animals carrying goods,
accompanied by an equally large number of men.
Well, these caravans didn’t travel very fast and there were no hotels
along the way so they would need to set up camp each night along the way. So, a couple men would always go ahead of the
caravan to scout out places to rest and camp.
These places would need to have water available and provide as much rest
and refreshment as possible. The idea
was that when the caravan finally arrived, the camp would be set; rest and
refreshment would be waiting. You see, Jesus is telling his disciples that he is going ahead of them and will
prepare a place of rest, refreshment, grace and love. At the same time assuring
us that he has gone ahead and has prepared a place of rest,
refreshment, grace and love for __N__.
Dust to dust; ashes to
ashes! “How can we know the way?” asks
the Disciple Thomas. To this Jesus
responds - I am the way, the truth and the
life. We believe and proclaim that
through Jesus’ presence, God has transformed death and grief. _____ now rests in the light of Christ; held
in God’s grace and presence and love forever.
In the
name of the Father, the Son+ and the Holy Spirit. Amen!
More about the Gospel's understanding of heaven - Click here for an excellent article by NT Wright.
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